Thanks. Will try that route. Did you email each dealer individually (this is what I have been doing), or call and speak to someone?
I called and asked to speak to a manager to see what they could make happen. Made it crystal clear to them that I was getting the car, not going to pay over MSRP, and if they wanted my business, I'll make it as easy for them as possible, but if they don't want to sell it to me for MSRP, I will find other dealers. I think it's easier to convey that via phone call (tone of voice, etc) instead of email.
Fortunately in my case, I had a friend who had a really good experience with a Kia dealer a ways away, and they helped them out (way over mileage on a lease) when other dealers wouldn't. So I said "hey, I'm friends with (my friend), and they bought a car from you, and you helped them out, and they spoke highly of you. I'm in the market for a K5 GT, and was wondering if you could special order one for MSRP." Fortunately he was willing to help, and 4 months later, my K5 GT was there and I bought it with no problems (I was about $41.5k out the door due to California taxes and I decided to get an alarm from the dealer, too, but it wasn't required).